“I work out at a gym and I have noticed this guy check me out (come on he gets on the machine behind me every time I do the stair stepper). He is cute and asked me to grab drinks after we work out. Am I totally unhinged when I say no, I am busy because I am not ‘done up’? I usually prepare for a date at least 24 hours in advance. “
Jane
Jane,
Yes, you are coming unhinged. And yes good observation he is checking you out – don’t worry, I got busted doing it the other day (take it as a compliment). But what the heck- why wouldn’t you go? He is obviously checking you out and obviously thinks you look good enough in your workout clothes. But props to this guy – I think this is a great way to get to know someone. It’s better than picking someone up in the bar and you already have something in common (can I get an amen?). Drop me a line and let me know how it works out- .
I hope this helps,
JL
